Being Handicapped is Only a State of Mind + Bonus Story

“Kinza,” my two year old brother asked, “will you read a book to me?”
“Sure,” I said and went to one of our many bookshelves to look for a book that I hadn’t already read to him 47 times. Scanning the books I grabbed one titled “Fanny”. I remembered the book from my childhood, but couldn’t have told anyone what it was actually about. Close to the bottom of the front cover was a sentence that read,
“Being handicapped is only a state of mind.”
The more I think about that now, the more I like it, and realize how true it is.
Opening the book, I started reading to my little brother. He enjoyed the story and pictures about the three-legged cat named Fanny. The further I got into the story, though, the more I realized that I actually needed to read this book about the three-legged cat. In the story, the other farm animals don’t talk to Fanny at all; they feel that because of her handicap, she will be embarrassed and awkward, and since she’s different, she certainly wouldn’t have much to say.

In reading the book, I realized how I can be so much like the other animals on the farm. When I see someone who is handicapped or even just a little different, odd, or not up on the latest, I am tempted to judge them by their exterior, and think that I can’t talk to them, as it would be awkward, and we would have nothing in common, and they surely can’t have much to say. Jesus was not like that. As it says in Galatians 3:28, “There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither slave nor free, there is neither male nor female- for all of you are one in Jesus Christ.” We can also look at Jesus’ life as portrayed in the Bible. He certainly showed love to everyone- rich, poor, Christians, sinners, and everyone in between.
In the end of the book, a little puppy befriends Fanny and they become inseparable. Through this relationship, the other animals see that they, too, can be friends with Fanny, as it’s not awkward talking to her, and she has things to say: an entire heart full of things she had always wanted to say.
Stop and keep your eyes and ears open for those around you whose voices are never heard. Sometimes the most unpromising-looking people are the ones who have the most to say. Many of them may have an entire heart full of things they’ve always wanted to say.

Bonus: Sequel to last week’s post!

Last week we decided that we wanted to to go canoeing and kayaking at a reservoir close to our church after the service was over. We got food ready for a picnic and strapped our canoe and kayak onto the back of dad’s truck, ready for a party! I started out, driving the truck to church, but when I was right in the middle of town I happened to glance in my side view mirror and saw a strap fly and the canoe disappear.

“What the huff,” I said, “This is not what I need on the way to church!”

So, my younger sister and brother and I climbed out of the truck to inspect the situation. Immediately I did what every girls does first and called my dad!

“Hey, I lost the canoe in the middle of town!”

“Shoot,” he said, “well, I’ll be right there.

So, although he was almost to church he turned around and came back to help me.

Before he made it to where I was, though, two creepy guys stopped and asked if they could be of any help. When I say creepy I mean it, too! We’re talking pistol strapped to belt and the whole nine yards!

“Well,” I said, “My canoe kinda fell off the truck and there’s not much I can do. “My dad should be here soon, though.

“We’ll help you out at least by getting the canoe onto the truck,” they said.

So, up went the canoe and then one of the guys remembered he had a strap in his truck and he got it and strapped the canoe tight! I thanked them as they quickly left, wishing I could do more. I mean, they actually gave us their strap!

God definitely watches out for us, even in the little things! You know what, this actually kind of fits into what I wrote earlier about not judging people by their exterior. Some of the most creepy looking people turn out to be the most generous, kindhearted and helpful!


Written by Kinza

A Flat Tire and God’s Protection

The other day my nine year old brother, Patrick, and I were driving along when I heard a weird clunking noise that seemed to be coming from my front left tire.
I told Patrick, “I am gonna pull off and see what’s wrong.”
I hopped out to find that my tire was very flat. Like it was almost driving on the rim.
Thankfully I was on a road that has a fairly wide berm, so I got my car off the road completely and called Dad. Thank God for Dad’s that put up with their daughters calling about mechanical issues! Unfortunately, he was two hours away and couldn’t come help me. He said everything to put the spare on should be in my car and if I can’t figure it out, call him and he’ll walk me through it.
While we were in the process of figuring this out, a big, dark green van pulled up behind me, and a guy that I would label as creepy came over and asked if we needed help.
I was like, “Well, my tire is kinda flat.”
So he got down and tried taking the nuts off, but he couldn’t, so he called his buddy who had a bigger lug to come. He’s like, “yeah, there’s a young lady here with her son…” and I am thinking, “how old do I look?”
In the meantime, I was getting something out of my car, and I laid my phone and key on the seat, and shut the door. What do you know, the doors were locked. Talk about a bad day gone worse. I just wanted to scream. The last thing I wanted this alleged “creep” to know was that now I didn’t have my phone, but I asked him if he wanted to try to unlock my car anyway. Thankfully the trunk was open and the back seat easily went down enough for Patrick to crawl in and get my stuff.
By then this man’s friend came, as well as another random guy who stopped by. They were all of the same stripe; tattoos, smoking, and just rough looking.

Eventually they got the flat tire off and tried putting the spare on. But since I never needed the spare before, I had never looked at it, and unfortunately it was not made for my car. The bolt patterns just didn’t quite line up.
Kinza was about 20 minutes from me, so she headed over to pick us up. I told these guys she was coming and they could go it they wanted. But they said they weren’t going anywhere until she came. So they waited there until we got the flat in her car and made sure I had my key and the doors were locked (they were very concerned that I do this right) and we were on our way.

I know that God was there the entire hour we sat along the road. Never would I have felt safe with those guys or trusted them, but maybe they were trustworthy. Maybe they weren’t. But I do know that whether it was the symbolism of my head covering or simply God’s presence, we were protected and God used those men to help us. The whole situation also taught me not to immediately judge people just by their looks. Everyone is created and loved by God and has the potential for great things.

Written by Ginger


What’s Sourdough? + Cinnamon Rolls

When I was a child, our neighbor man had a bread machine and we were his guinea pigs for trying the bread. One day he made us a loaf of sourdough bread. I thought it was the nastiest bread I ever had. Now when I’m given white bread, I’m like, “Where is the flavor?”
What was the difference? The bread he kindly made for us was called sourdough, but that was nominal. It was made by dumping a package of “stuff” in a machine. The bread my mom makes is also called sourdough but it is made from natural wild yeast.
Sourdough is the oldest form of leavened bread in the world. Wild, live yeast is floating in the air and can be caught with flour and water and become your sourdough starter. That is used to make amazing, flavorful bread, waffles, English muffins and many wonderful foods. Because this yeast is a natural creation of God, it is better for our bodies and gives us great nutrition.
Enjoy the following recipe and feel free to ask how to get your own sourdough starter!

Sourdough Cinnamon Rolls

Makes 24 Cinnamon Rolls

1 C. Active Sourdough Starter
1 tsp. Salt
1/2 C. Sugar
1/3 C. Butter, melted & cooled
2 Eggs
1/4 C. Milk, warm
1 tsp. Yeast
3-4 C. Flour

Filling:
Butter
Cinnamon
Brown Sugar

Mix together first 5 ingredients. Add yeast to warm milk and let sit until foamy; about 5 minutes. Add to sourdough mixture. Slowly add flour until you have a soft ball that is not sticky. Knead until elastic. Let rise in bowl until double or all day. Roll dough out and spread with soft butter and sprinkle with cinnamon and sugar. Roll tightly up length wise, and slice into rounds. Grease pans and place rolls in. Cover and let rise overnight. Bake at 400F degrees for 12-15 minutes. Spread with your favorite icing and enjoy!

This is our favorite cinnamon roll recipe, as it stays super moist! – Damarus


The Invisible Sin

Gossip is a huge word.

What exactly is gossip?

Isn’t it just an unimportant little thing?

Is it really a sin?

Has it put it’s clutching hands about our lives?

Let’s start with the definition of the word gossip.

gos•sip

/’gäsup/

casual or unconstrained conversation or reports about other people, typically involving details that are not confirmed as being true

Oxford Languages

Ok! Some of us may look at this definition and think whoa, that steps on my toes a little harder than I thought it would. That is a great definition of gossip though!

How often do I find myself walking down those paths?

Do I tell everyone the news I know?

Do I add things to stories to make them more interesting?

Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying, that it may minister grace into the hearers.

Ephesians 4:29

Here we are told that not only are we to not talk bad about others but to actively encourage others with our mouths. What a contrast!

An hypocrite with his mouth destroyeth his neighbor: but through knowledge shall the just be delivered.

Proverbs 11:9

He that hideth hatred with lying lips, and he that uttereth a slander, is a fool.

Proverbs 10:18

That verse states it pretty strongly!

So if the Bible talks a lot about gossip and states very clearly that it is a sin then why is it such a problem in so many Christian circles? I don’t know the answer to this myself although I will give a few of my ideas, so please comment below why this is such a problem and practical ways that we can stop it!

I think one of the reasons gossip is so common is because it comes so naturally. We as people love to know things. It gives us a sense of power. Also, lots of people on this earth also love to talk. So when we have a lot of people who like to know things, a lot of people who like to talk, and a lot of people who are doing interesting things there is most likely going to be a lot of gossip!

Another reason gossip isn’t stopped is because we don’t pause and think about our gossiping habits and when we do we often don’t see gossip as the serious sin it is. Recognizing gossip can be difficult as we like to spread news in the form of “prayers requests” or “concerns,” trying to disguise it to look godly.

One more is that we don’t like to admit when we gossip. We think oh, it’s totally true so it’s not gossip. Well, as we saw in the definition above, gossip is simply talking about others. What we’re talking about may be totally true, but if it’s someone else’s private affairs, it’s wrong!

And then there’s the other side of the issue. Listening to gossip without stopping it is just as bad as actually doing the gossiping. This is where it comes the closest home for me.

Therefore, to him that knoweth to do good and doeth it not, to him it is sin.

James 4:17

What I take from this verse is that if we know what we should be doing, yet don’t do it, we’re straight up sinning. So if I listen to someone gossip and don’t stop them, I’m sinning.

Keep the tongue from evil and the lips from speaking guile.

Psalm 34:13

Wow! Life would be a lot simpler if we all just obeyed that simple verse!

Written by Kinza

Abide

Abide

by: Belinda Keller

“Abide in me, and I in you.” John 15:4


“Abide in me, and I in you.” John 15:4
January came and I read this passage. The concept of abiding grabbed my attention. I realized that I was good at trying to bear fruit, but not at abiding. I felt led to choose this word as my focus for the year. I didn’t know what it would hold. I’m beginning to see now.
I wrote it in my journal. I posted it at my kitchen sink.
The questions came to me and I pondered.
I peppered my friends with them. Wanting to know –
Can I bear true fruit if I’m not abiding?
Is it possible to think I’m bearing fruit but really not be?
Can I get so distracted trying to “do” the fruit thing that I forget to “be” connected?
What does it mean to abide?
Will I face doubt and anxiety and fear if I am abiding?
“…He that abideth in me, and I in him, the same bringeth forth much fruit:” v.5
It is a promise. Clear and concise. I like that. It gives me peace.
But still the question of abiding…
I realize again how stuck I am on doing. Can abiding be something I do?
An action to check off or a posture of my heart?
If it is the posture of my heart, then it means where I turn every day for –
direction,
grace,
peace,
rest.
I believe abiding means that even when anxiety and doubt raise their ugly heads and grip me in their grasp, I can turn my heart towards my Father and find rest in His truth.
It means that I still have purpose and value when the doing is stripped away because abiding comes first. Circumstances can hinder me from bearing fruit like I think I should, but abiding cannot be taken away with sickness or anything else.
I can always choose to turn towards the Vine – even if all I can muster is a feeble “Jesus, I need you. I will trust you.”
I can choose to believe the promises even when I don’t feel them.
Abiding means I will bear fruit (v.5).
Abiding means His words abide in me (v. 7).
Abiding means I can know that He will hear and answer my requests (v. 7).
Abiding means I will glorify my Father (v. 8).
Abiding means I keep the Father’s commandments (v. 10).
“…every branch that beareth fruit, He purgeth it, that it may bring forth more fruit.” (v. 2)
Abiding does not mean that I will not be purged (v. 2).

Then the question comes –
What is purging?
I believe purging is different from being cut off. Purging is what happens to the branch that IS bearing fruit.
But does purging mean taking away the bad only?
Does He ever take away good fruit?
I believe He does. Just look again at verse 2.
The one that has good fruit gets purged. Why?
To bring forth more fruit.
So sometimes He asks me to let go of the good and takes it away so that His best can come?
Yes.
And it is excruciating because it was good.
I wanted that fruit. I thought it was worth keeping.
It’s hard to see how something better can come.
I know.
It’s early spring right now.
The purging is fresh and my soul feels barren.
Naked.
Fruitless.
Stripped of all I had put my energy into and thought was good.
It was good. At least, it was fruit.
Can I still abide in Him even in this?
“These things have I spoken unto you, that my joy might remain in you, and that your joy might be full.” John 15:11

Thank you Belinda for sharing this with me, and allowing me to share it with others! It was a blessing and encouragement. May Jesus continue to be close to you.” – Damarus