The Bad and the Worse of Technology

The Bad and the Worse of Technology.

Written By Kinza

I know this might seem like a lot of negativity that you’re about to jump into, and that’s because it is, so stay tuned for next week’s post on good ways technology can be used.

I scroll through Pinterest. I tap through statuses. I shoot a picture and share it with a friend. My phone is something I use everyday. It is also something that I know I use too much. In reality we probably all know we use our phones, or laptops, or tablets, or whatever it is that we have, too much. The questions are: do we understand these problems to be as big as they actually are and do we want to take measures to stop them?

More and more people are putting down their books and picking up their phones. It has become increasingly evident that this trend is severely handicapping our brains. Many children can barely read a grade appropriate book, hold a meaningful conversation, or sit through a service, yet know all the capabilities of a smart phone and the internet. Whether we realize it or not, smartphones have trained us to skim. While on our phones, all we need is a few taps and swipes and we can jump from one thing to the next and in that we can constantly keep up with the latest and keep ourselves highly entertained. This effect carries over to the rest of life, causing people to have short attention spans, low comprehension levels, and little concentration in work and conversations. Also, with all the virtual talking going on, many people are missing or losing their emotional and communication skills. Let’s start using our phones less and reading more good books that stimulate our brains.

Texting is great. It saves time. It’s also dangerous. We need to be extremely careful when communicating with others via text as misunderstandings can arise very, very easily. Relationships can be hurt when a text gets sent to the wrong person or an emoji or texting slang is misunderstood. Girls, please be very cautious when texting guys, and vice versa because what you think is an innocent text can be misread or read into very quickly. Another thing to remember is if you wouldn’t say it in person don’t say it online. Many people use social media and texting to run others down, gossip, and spread lies and rumors. Sadly, we have also come too okay with ignoring those around us and being on our phones instead. Whether or not we realize it, not listening is giving the impression that we don’t care. Let’s put down our phones and start investing in face to face relationships.

One thing that we often tend to forget about is how Google, YouTube, Alexa, and generally everything spies on and tracks us. If you have a Google account and use it, then someone has access to all of your contacts, searches, YouTube trends, photos, general location, and various other things. In your Google settings you can limit what Google can see and use, but that can only protect you so far; some of this is out of our control. Another thing you can do to protect yourself is to cover the cam on your laptop so you know you won’t be spied on with that. I hope it isn’t that we have anything to hide, but in the future what we think is private information could easily be used against us. Google, Amazon, YouTube, and Pinterest also censor, blocking and removing any content that they don’t want people to see. Such content includes politics and anti-vaccine and other health-related topics. If you want to search without being tracked and censored, use a different web browser such as Duck Duck Go. The reason behind this tracking and censoring eventually boils down to the control and money that drives a few people. Let’s never let those motives rule our lives! This can tend to scare me, but I just have to remember that God is in control and no matter what happens He’ll always be there for us!

Yes, step away from screens, and let the glories of creation break your heart and let the handiwork of God’s creative genius wash you as you ski mountains, hike trails, and scuba dive into oceans. But don’t stop there. Climb the summits of Scripture, too. Let God’s word pierce your intentions and cut down into your truest motives, and let yourself be convicted, broken, and remade-which is the feeling of standing in the breathtaking presence of God.

-Tony Reinke, “12 Ways Your Phone is Changing You”

The Broken Ones

The ewe once again pushes her newly delivered lamb to the ground and I want to cry. Her lamb feebly walks on soft hooves, still wet from birth and needing the acknowledgement of her mother. The lamb needs licked so warmth can come and her mother’s new milk that is so incredibly important for the healthy life of her baby. Yet, there she stands, continuing to push off the life that she carried for so long. Refusing to meet the increasingly important needs that are crucial for the health and growth of her baby. And once again the little lamb pursues her mother. Desiring her mother because she knows she is the one who can fill the ache in her little self; and she is rejected again, falling in the hay because of her feebleness. It makes me think of life, people and the brokenness around us.

Pure religion and undefiled before God and the Father is this, To visit the fatherless and the widows in their affliction, and to keep himself unspotted from the world. James 1 : 27

My family just celebrated three years of having my little siblings in our home. I have to think about what all they have gone through and what they need so they can heal. They missed that nuzzle from their mother and that acknowledging touch.

There are children like orphan lambs that have been pushed in the hay by the one who should have protected them. They have soft hooves and feeble legs. They have not been given the security and nourishment that they should have received immediately at birth. You wonder often what will become of this hurting life.

I am the good shepherd, and know my sheep, and am known of mine. As the Father knoweth me, even so know I the Father : and I lay down my life for the sheep. John 10 : 14-15

Slowly healing comes. One day you will celebrate because they can stand on their own! Their legs have been strengthened. Where love, structure and life are met, there is growth. When you meet a child with love and gentleness, meeting their everyday needs, healing comes.

We all like sheep must come to Jesus in complete brokenness, realizing our need for Him. How we simply can’t live a rewarding life without Him. Coming to Him for nourishment, just as an orphan lamb needs a bottle and a child needs unconditional love.

Words by : Damarus

-Layered Coffee-

It seems like coffee speaks a lot of peoples language! So hear is another idea for you all. It is so beautiful!

So here is how to do it:

Froth 1/2 c. of milk with flavored syrup or vanilla/sweetener to taste.

Pour in a clear mug.

Then make coffee the desired way. We are using either drip coffee or french press coffee.

If you choose drip, set the pour-over on your mug of frothy milk. Put a heaping 1TB. coffee in it and pour enough boiling water over to cover grounds. Let sit for 30 seconds to “bloom”, then fill pour-over with water to the top and let drip fill your cup. It will separate into those beautiful layers!

Or if you don’t have a way to make drip coffee, you can make it with a french press or even with coffee made the regular way! If you aren’t using a pour-over, take a spoon and slowly pour the brewed coffee over the back of it near the edge of the cup and the same almost magical layers will appear!

Thank you Heather for sharing this idea and helping us with it!

Compiled by: Daisy

Survey Results

Hi everyone!

We thought we would give you all a little run down on our survey results.

We were very thankful for all of you who filled out the form as it was very interesting to read the results.

To all of you who sent us encouragement; thank you so much!

It means a lot!

Jumping right into the survey, here are a few statistics we received-

  • 58% percent of people who filled out the survey were from the United States and most of the others were from Canada.
  • At 38% the most common way for people to have discovered our blog was to come across it on the internet somewhere.

Straight from one of us was 24%

From a friend was 17%

Other came to 21%

  • At 38% most people definitely wanted to see personal stories. (To all of you who selected that, we will try to do more!)

17% said inspirational or challeging blogs

14% said recipes

2% said tutorials

29% selected other

  • At 28% recipes were what people wanted to see the least. We can take a hint y’all! LOL, it’s just impossible to please everyone, because some people specified that they wanted recipes. We will try to have the perfect balance!

11% selected recommendations

11% selected inspirational or challenging blogs

11% selected tutorials

(Do I seem repetitive after the last three? 😉 Ok, I’ll change things up now!)

2% didn’t want personal stories

37% chose other

  • We received a huge variety of ideas for topics to post about. May God give us wisdom to try to cover some of those suggestions!
  • The last question on the survey asked for comments, questions, or advice. Everyone was so encouraging with what they put in that blank! Thank you all so much for your inspiration and support, it means a lot to us!

Compiled by Kinza

What do you like to See?

Hey there! We want to thank you all for stopping to read our thoughts throughout this last year of blogging! We are soon reaching our one year mark and are curious what style of post has been your favorite? What posts have caught your eye or what would you like to hear our opinion and thoughts on? Comments and emails have been a blessing! We love hearing from you all!

Would love if you would take this short survey that we created to learn what you want to see. Don’t worry, it’s only a few easy questions! Thanks for your time and support!